"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New to forum. Have a couple questions

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Ok so there's this girl I've been seeing frequently at school. She is completely random..I don't have any classes with her nor have I seen her before this semester. I've been meaning to go up to her but I dont want to seem like weirdo. And shes always sitting with either one of friends or like 4 of them (most of the time just one). I'm starting to get impatient because I really don't have a problem talking to girls that I have connection with (girls in my classes, or through friends). Semester is almost over and I'm thinking about going up to her tomorrow regardless if she's with her friend/s. Cuz I can't pass up the opportunity of not knowing what could've happenedmbetween us. Could you guys help me out? Any way of starting to talk to her without her thinking I'm wired? Lol. I was just thinking of saying "hey I've been seeing you around here lately and it's bugging me that we haven't met" or something along those lines... And like I said, her friend/s are an issue
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Htienvu

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I guess try to talk to her in an isolated situation would be best! If you can't then be brave and just walk up to her, that line isn't a bad one. If you don't freak out and start mumbling then you will get credit for being confident. Read the DJ bible bottom left of the forum.
 

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just one chics amongst millions of chics, try your direct approach like you're wanting, it may work, it may not work. It has worked in the past for me, but you really just have to try it. I think it really works well as long as you dont try to force it.
 

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so i pussied out of it. hopefully i'll see her again on friday. if not then oh well i guess
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Diaforetikos

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Go direct. Tell her you think she's cute and would like to learn more about her.

And believe you can do it. Otherwise, she'll see right through your fake game and weed you out. And if you die tomorrow, you'll regret it. Man the fvck up and at least go talk to her. Stop wasting time.
 
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