"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New theory on approaching women

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what I said does have some truth to it, and here is why.

Once I can tallk to a women, or in otherwords get her attention I am fine. However alot of women advoid giving out normal signals such as direct eye contact becuase they are imtimidated than when I am hanging with my little sister at the park in gym clothes . It's the same thing guys do, alot of people here, so why it is so hard to believe?

I would post my picture, but to be honest I don't like it to much, but me and a friend of mine are getting pitures made later this week, I will be happy to post then.

I didn't start this post to say how good looking I am; to be honest I could care less, as long as I am able to get the things I want in life, but the fact is women do consider me to be very good looking, it's no shame in that.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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also, looking good has cursed me in the sense where as I h onestly don't have to try as hard to talk to women as most guys. That's good but it makes me not practice my DJ skills like i should, because I am skating by on my looks.
 

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Yes, I hate threads where good looking guys whine they are too good looking. There is no such thing as too good looking. With a bit of confidence and the balls to approach girls, you can get some of the hottest girls around. You don't need "signals" from girls-just approach them. If you are as hot as you say you are they will go for you. Just tone down the ****iness and develop a bit of a personality.

I thought the comment the second person made about beautiful girls not being approached enough, isn't hammered in enough on this site. Sure the outgoing, nightclub girls get hit on all the time, but in normal life a lot of beautiful girls do get passed by-especially as they are too shy to approach themselves, as most men are intimidated by them.
 
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