"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Hey guys,

After my many failed attempts I finally managed to play this one differently. Ive read up stuff from David Deangelo and the likes but never really found the oppertiunity to apply the routines of ****y funny and kinda flirt from the start...until now..

There was this chix in my school...one hell of a cute Westernised Asian (Im new asian migrant) a couple of years younger then me(I think anyway as she is 2 levels below me) but I never really got the chance to talk to her, until she got a job at where I work. I made a joke about one of the staff members working with her being a really smelly guy who has bad BO....She laughed so hard and that was when we first started chatting

Few weeks later we were on the same sports trip and we talked a little more about work and stuff. I ddint seem to interested in her at that time and was just playing it cool by teasing her.

We now bump into each other at school and we talk a little all the time now.

So today at work. I decided to get her number for the hell of it.

Me: OMG.. your fones soo crappy.. and you call yourself Asian!(Asians are usually know for having really good gadgets)
Her: LOL.. Shutup..
Me:. O well.... whats your number anyway.. Incase I get bored I have someone to txt..
Her: So your just using me now
Me: Heck yes!
Her: SAD!!!! Na you arent having it...Just kidding....(writes it down)....and puts down the name Stiffy..
Me: Stiffy.. WTF?
Her: Guys call me that all the time
Me: Why? Cause you give them one?
She: ROFLOMGLOL!!!

We then part ways and yeah that was it.......

Question is should I just wait it out and just see her at school on monday or txt her tomorrow.. and how should I approach this? ****y Funny? or the get to know you routine?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ian1988 said:
Her: SAD!!!! Na you arent having it...Just kidding....(writes it down)....and puts down the name Stiffy..
Me: Stiffy.. WTF?
Her: Guys call me that all the time
Me: Why? Cause you give them one?
She: ROFLOMGLOL!!!
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HAHA!:crackup: Nice one.
 
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Good job. Funny sh*t bro
 
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I dunno, I'm getting some friend vibes reading this post and all. There isn't a forumula, text her whenever you want, make it a funny one relating back to some past convo joke or something (maybe make a reference to stiffy). Don't talk through text, let her do one back and I'd call her maybe the next day and set up a date. You gotta escalate it before she thinks of you as a friend.
 
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I say screw the text, CALL the broad.

Answer with "Whats up Stiffy"
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hehe.. well I saw her at work.

She questioned me why I didnt txt her..I just responded..I wasnt bored

Tickled her a little.. carried on the ****y funny routine and chatted to her a little.

Got home decided to have a little txt with her, still being really cheeky and flirty, I'll just kep my distance and play it out.. mayb pull back a little.. then move forward...
 
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That's the way just reel her in, you sound like you know what your doing keep it up.
 
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I feel that im playing this right this time. She seems to have taken the bait a little.

We talked over MSN and i got really cheeky and playfull, She was just as enthusiastic about it..I cut it off when the convo was nearly starting to taper off.

Shes going away for a B'Ball trip and I told her to txt me while shes down there... I'll kinda give the impression im to busy to txt her if she does make contact with me.
 
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