"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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Suits don't cost much more than alot of that hip-hop/gangsta sh!t they sell down in the local mall. Really, for about the same price as a pair of baggy pants, an oversized sports jersey, and a pair of sneakers, you could have one or two cheap suits.

And speaking from experience, cheap suits are no better than expensive ones... have them tailored to fit you and you'll look like a million bucks (It only costs about $15.00 - $20.00 for alterations where I live). ;)
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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hey man the fit has such a huge impact on the look.

even when you find your size.. 99 percent of time for me its too long.

i would learn how to shorten it or something, if i ts a real good shirt on a real good deal.
otherwise try to find stuff that fits well.

you know... like just slightly below the top of your pants.
it looks 10x better.
 

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Originally posted by Lost
hey man the fit has such a huge impact on the look.

Yeah, and if you're in good shape then thats even more true. Clothes are, I believe, ment to enhance your body... not to cover it up.;)
 

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Soma: Contrast, huh? I'm no fashion expert, I havent heard that rule before.
Yeah, contrast. It looks fvcking cool. But why does it look cool? Because it's another layer of complexity to your look. Without contrast it's easier to immediately label you. With contrast you have to think about it for a bit. You're not sure. Which is sexy.

Dress completely preppy and people will assume you're a prep. Dress completely goth and people will assume you're a goth. But mix up that prep look with some goth shiet, or vice versa, and suddenly people aren't exactly sure what label to give you. People will want to figure you out so they can slot you in the appropriate box (human nature). But they can't figure your angle off the bat so they think about you. You stand out in their mind. For better or worse, you possess mystery that the rest of the sheep around you do not. Sexiness.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Spike_the_Dragon

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I have pretty shaggy hair and I wear a suit. I used to have really long hair, but everyone thought I was a mobster or something so I had to cut it off.

Anyways, contrast is good. I hadn't realised until now that I've been doing that all along.:cool:
 

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After reading the article I just had to reply. This is some good stuff and I will take your guys advice and pick what fits me.
I dont have style at all so I dont want people to be shock since I start wearing this things that people never seen me wear so what should I do. Should I mix it up so people dont label me, but what if I am already labeled lets say a prep or goth or whatever how can i get out of that with out transforming into someone who doesnt have stlye and then that does style.
(Im not sure if this makes sense) Or should I just take your guys advice and just wear what looks good on me and fvck what catergory Im in....(prep,goth etc.)

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Keep on keeping on-Joe Dirt
 

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Shades

Shades are the shyt if you wear them correctly. I spend a lot of time on boats and boat places (put in bay). If your shades look cool then wear them and as you approach women or they approach you.......pull your shades down a bit so they are on the tip of your nose and peer out from them. Tilt your head a bit and give just the slightest nod so your eyes appear from the back of the shades.....it's a nice/confident effect.

ie. Risky Business movie
 

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phatboi408: Wear whatever you want... Don't let others influence what you want to wear. If you think something looks good on you, go for it. You don't have to necessarily AIM for a style or label. Whatever you wear will be your style.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I hate when people try copying other peoples style , cuz i believe u should make ur own style that fits u .... like me i had a great style that usually no one else had in high shcool , and the girls noticed that, they even voted me the best dresser three years in a row.... Cuz i didnt choose clothes from watching other people i chose them cuz they fit me well ... Just go out and try clothes that you like and think u would be comfertable in....
 
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