"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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TheInfamousCBear

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
Let's hear how you dress
It depends what kind of mood im in...If Im feeling ok, I like to wear brown suede jackets and coats or brown leather jackets with brown or rust timbs...I like wearing military combat caps, I have black, khaki, olive, and camo...I like the military shirts too, the ones that people wear when they are in training...I have brown, olive, or camo that I would wear with the brown suede...I have 2 of those bomber jackets with the sherpa lining, one is brown and the other is black...

If im in a sort of sh1tty mood, I have these old worn in black t shirts, they fit really well and I usually wear them with a black leather jacket...I have a dyed black leather jacket, a black lambskin jacket, and a short collarless black jacket...I wear my black addias shelltoes or my black on black chucks...

As for assessories, I have 2 dog choker chains, one with small links and one with larger links...I got alot of rings my mom got me, but I want some more...I have this big dragon head ring made out of solid silver and some other rings...I got these thick silver bracelets and I got a bracelet made out of pewter skulls and another one made of skull and crossbone links..I used to wear a black bandanna, but its a gang color now so im not fuking with it...For the last couple of months, Ive been bored, so Ive been making sh1t out of old clothes...I made headbands out of old t shirt sleeves, one for when I let my hair grow and it gets messy, and one for when my head is bald and I dont want to wear a hat...

When I dress up, its usually black dress shirt, grey pants...But I want some of those shirts with the color contrasts, where the sleeves and collar is one color and the shirt color contrasts with it...That and a leather blazer...
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I usually wear a solid colored button up (like from express) with the sleeves rolled up, bottom button undone and top 2 undone with some faded jeans and white sneakers.

Im sick of that look tho so im switching it up crazy style.
 

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Im sick of that look tho so im switching it up crazy style.
I'm pretty much just starting up that look. But what look are you going for now?
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA
What about casual, but nice looking jackets?
Like...?

I got a really nice jacket from Banana Republic last year for the fall/winter. It's a wool/nylon/cashmere blend. this one
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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but definetely no wal-mart.
Wal-Mart does have SOME good clothes to buy if you LOOK for them. If wal-mart changed their prices to 100 bucks for an article of clothing everyone would run there....:rolleyes:
 

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Originally posted by JBizzle
Wal-Mart does have SOME good clothes to buy if you LOOK for them. If wal-mart changed their prices to 100 bucks for an article of clothing everyone would run there....:rolleyes:
The only good clothes wal mart has are ****ies...
 

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I'm pretty much just starting up that look. But what look are you going for now?
I dunno, just crazy Tyler Durden fight club style sh1t.

Right now im STILL wearing express style. My jeans are tighter, bootcut or flare. My shoes are black casual/dress style. I got a bunch of different belt buckles, some mass produced, some obsucre ones from pawn shops...

I sport button up collered shirts UNDER sweaters with the coller out and the cuffs folded over the sleeves of the sweater.

I have a couple leather jackets. Both are this style .............
Not that exact jacket but they are shorter with the same style of collar.

One of them is a lighter tan color, the other a very soft black. Both are dope.

Im hittng up some more obscure stores soon when i get some $$$ to pick up some 1 of a kind pieces.
 

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Originally posted by aBAzLLnA

I made a new friend a couple weeks ago, the dood is 19 but the way he dresses he looks 21+. Essentially, his style is impeccable, and classy. I'm lookin at his style, then lookin at mine...then back at his, and thinking, "Hmm...there's something wrong with this picture."

Is this 'freind" your boyfreind?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Originally posted by Raptured Phoenix
shades ARE sh1t.

NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER NEVER wear sunglasses when DJing. You want people to see your EYES, remember they are the window to your soul, who would feel attracted to a soul-less robot?

Word. If you wear them, remove them before DJing.


Here are some classy/suave looks listed below:



Brad Pitt: http://www.cinefile.biz/fight1.jpg http://galeon.hispavista.com/cifra2/img/fight club.jpg


http://www.felicequattro.com/11.jpg


http://www.wayless.com/Merchant2/graphics/00000001/1-aw2.gif


http://www.tradingsolutions.co.uk/images/officeman.jpg


http://www.bloomington.in.us/~jrsacm99/graphics/clients/maninstripes.jpg


If you want to get alot of female attention (and make other males envious), try some of those looks.;)
 

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Soma: Contrast, huh? I'm no fashion expert, I havent heard that rule before.

I like to wear some vintage shirts, like a small 60's-hawaiian shirt and off-white pants or jeans with a black belt, or a tan collared shirt with the top and bottom buttons undone.

I have a dark grey/blue(almost black) leather/suede reversible jacket from the 60's or 70's (ebay) that i wear with practically anything, every chance I get.

to match the jacket, I have Hunters Bay low-cut black leather shoes which are pretty nice looking underneath jeans or khakis.

I have dark, short hair and sideburns that stretch down beyond my earlobes. I usually gel my hair and muss it up, which kinda makes for an early Elvis Presley look when it works.

I avoid preppy or anything common at all costs.

any thoughts?
 

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Originally posted by hb
Pink is also hugely "IN" right now. Go get a pink polo. Also try to mess with hands. Not so much fitteds, im talkin about kangols and "pimp" hats.

no real man wears pink. pink is the color of a pu ssy.
 
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ak5 stfu Pink is dope if you sport it right..

Sure get a pink polo if you wanna look like every other gaylord out there. Hey an even better idea, get a pink polo and flip up the collar! Now you can look like kanye west did 7 months ago! BTW make sure its lacost!!

In? fvckouttahere....
 

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no real man wears pink. pink is the color of p u ssy.
Whoever honestly thinks that color bears any weight on ones sexuality, then he needs to grow up.

I avoid preppy or anything common at all costs.
I think mixing prepiness up with something original isn't a bad idea. Just shows another side of you. Know what I mean?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I'd only wear pink if it was a columbian necktie.

In other words, you'd have to kill me first. If another man wears pink I'm cool with that, but it simply does not fit my style at all.
 

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Originally posted by jason86
Camron will be very happy about this
Camron doesnt wear pink anymore...Its purple now...

DIPSET DIPSET DIPSET
 

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Yea, camron wore pink...and just like the other guy said, pink = not my color, if it works for you, great.
 

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If you want to get alot of female attention (and make other males envious), try some of those looks.
That is, if you don't mind paying ****loads for a suit... Too formal I think...
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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