"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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New school, and new opportunities... advice is welcome

proteinshake

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Yeah so check it out i just returned to highschool after being kicked out for a few months, im 17 yrs old and i got my own place...partys all the time, my partys so the girls that come over all intoduce themselves to me. so ive been there 3 days and ive already intoduced myself to a few hotties. i dont know anyone at the school. one thing ive noticed is that i feel like im the best looking dude in the school and im definatly more muscular than anybody there.
Im not getting as many looks as i think i should but hey its only the 3rd day, my plan right now is to throw a party in 2 weeks and invite all the hot girls ive met and a couple other senior guys. any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Demonstrate your higher value! If your really the best looking and most muscular one at your new school, you should easily be able to make some good friends. (I've never moved to a new school, so i wouldn't know if this worked, this is all just theory)

I think you should concentrate on talking to the HB's, cause if you get in with the HB's your in with anyone at the school. This is how i became popular, so i know it works. Good luck:rockon:

P.S. Your 17 and you have your own place, that's so awesome you have no idea.
 

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proteinshake said:
Yeah so check it out i just returned to highschool after being kicked out for a few months, im 17 yrs old and i got my own place...partys all the time, my partys so the girls that come over all intoduce themselves to me. so ive been there 3 days and ive already intoduced myself to a few hotties. i dont know anyone at the school. one thing ive noticed is that i feel like im the best looking dude in the school and im definatly more muscular than anybody there.
Im not getting as many looks as i think i should but hey its only the 3rd day, my plan right now is to throw a party in 2 weeks and invite all the hot girls ive met and a couple other senior guys. any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
You have to be fun and interesting as soon as you get there.

Make friends with other alphas, and be the leader of them

Lead the men and the women will follow.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so far ive made a few alpha friends (some 20 yr old seniors) i got invited to one of thier partys. and ive had a cold so thats kinda mess my voice up but wtv.thanks for the advice so far. ill keep yall updated
 

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is this like one of those hollywood high schools that i see on television. the ones where the dudes are all 30 plus. the high school girls are all in their 20's. kinda like beverly hills 90210. damn, that show had dudes in it that were already losing most of their hair. it was like the youngest person on that show was 28. i guess the reason is because most high school aged guys are just not cool. i doubt if there are many high school girls out there who have pictures of high school boys on their walls. hell, i bet there are a zillion high school girls on this planet who have that 45 year old singer from the red hot chili peppers on their wall.

17...muscular...best looking dude in school...your own place. sounds like the opening lines for some sort of gay porno.
 

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wow sparky, i cant realy agree since ive never watched any gay porn. but thats cool to each his own. well, maybe u could give me some advice on how to dress or what kind of "product" to put in my hair?
 

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for gay porn? uh, i don't really know. i used to live around a bunch of them. i think most of you guys are trying to look like them. they were all well built and muscular. in case someone didn't tell you...males are all about the visuals. girls really are not that much into visuals. one girls cute guy is another girls icky guy.
 

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hmm why are we talking about gays all of a sudden. Isn't this a forum supposed to guide men into picking up women?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah bro i agree girls are less into visuals, but in highschool alot of girls look for guys who look good to gain status with thier friends or make thier girlfriends jealous.
 
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