"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New school, and new opportunities... advice is welcome

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Yeah so check it out i just returned to highschool after being kicked out for a few months, im 17 yrs old and i got my own place...partys all the time, my partys so the girls that come over all intoduce themselves to me. so ive been there 3 days and ive already intoduced myself to a few hotties. i dont know anyone at the school. one thing ive noticed is that i feel like im the best looking dude in the school and im definatly more muscular than anybody there.
Im not getting as many looks as i think i should but hey its only the 3rd day, my plan right now is to throw a party in 2 weeks and invite all the hot girls ive met and a couple other senior guys. any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Demonstrate your higher value! If your really the best looking and most muscular one at your new school, you should easily be able to make some good friends. (I've never moved to a new school, so i wouldn't know if this worked, this is all just theory)

I think you should concentrate on talking to the HB's, cause if you get in with the HB's your in with anyone at the school. This is how i became popular, so i know it works. Good luck:rockon:

P.S. Your 17 and you have your own place, that's so awesome you have no idea.
 
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proteinshake said:
Yeah so check it out i just returned to highschool after being kicked out for a few months, im 17 yrs old and i got my own place...partys all the time, my partys so the girls that come over all intoduce themselves to me. so ive been there 3 days and ive already intoduced myself to a few hotties. i dont know anyone at the school. one thing ive noticed is that i feel like im the best looking dude in the school and im definatly more muscular than anybody there.
Im not getting as many looks as i think i should but hey its only the 3rd day, my plan right now is to throw a party in 2 weeks and invite all the hot girls ive met and a couple other senior guys. any advice or tips would be greatly appreciated
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You have to be fun and interesting as soon as you get there.

Make friends with other alphas, and be the leader of them

Lead the men and the women will follow.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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so far ive made a few alpha friends (some 20 yr old seniors) i got invited to one of thier partys. and ive had a cold so thats kinda mess my voice up but wtv.thanks for the advice so far. ill keep yall updated
 
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is this like one of those hollywood high schools that i see on television. the ones where the dudes are all 30 plus. the high school girls are all in their 20's. kinda like beverly hills 90210. damn, that show had dudes in it that were already losing most of their hair. it was like the youngest person on that show was 28. i guess the reason is because most high school aged guys are just not cool. i doubt if there are many high school girls out there who have pictures of high school boys on their walls. hell, i bet there are a zillion high school girls on this planet who have that 45 year old singer from the red hot chili peppers on their wall.

17...muscular...best looking dude in school...your own place. sounds like the opening lines for some sort of gay porno.
 
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wow sparky, i cant realy agree since ive never watched any gay porn. but thats cool to each his own. well, maybe u could give me some advice on how to dress or what kind of "product" to put in my hair?
 
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for gay porn? uh, i don't really know. i used to live around a bunch of them. i think most of you guys are trying to look like them. they were all well built and muscular. in case someone didn't tell you...males are all about the visuals. girls really are not that much into visuals. one girls cute guy is another girls icky guy.
 
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hmm why are we talking about gays all of a sudden. Isn't this a forum supposed to guide men into picking up women?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah bro i agree girls are less into visuals, but in highschool alot of girls look for guys who look good to gain status with thier friends or make thier girlfriends jealous.
 
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