“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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New rule on setting up dates

mellow mel

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From reading 2 smoothes post as well as my own post about the Victorias Secret girl, we can establish a new rule for saving money and time.
Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even need to give me your phone number cause I doubt if we'd be expecting the same thing if we went out".
I like this approach, that's what I should have done because it's more assertive in establishing your intentions.
Rule #2: Don't wait to ask for the phone number or give her your phone number first. Again, it's a issue of being assertive.

Damn, these rule should be common sense to me by now.

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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I totally agree with you mell, cause now I wish thats what I should have done.

Also, maybe clarify if it was a romantic or non-romantic date.

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I'll keep dah in mind.

Say Mellow, Shame on you. As a moderator you move alot of posts but how come you write tips in the general discussion board?
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Just kiddin.

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Deezy,
As a moderator, I sometimes make mistakes myself, but, as soon as someone brings it to my attention, I try to correct it. I will move this post to the tips section where it belongs.

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