mellow mel
Senior Don Juan
From reading 2 smoothes post as well as my own post about the Victorias Secret girl, we can establish a new rule for saving money and time.
Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even need to give me your phone number cause I doubt if we'd be expecting the same thing if we went out".
I like this approach, that's what I should have done because it's more assertive in establishing your intentions.
Rule #2: Don't wait to ask for the phone number or give her your phone number first. Again, it's a issue of being assertive.
Damn, these rule should be common sense to me by now.
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Mellow
Rule: If it's not a date, don't waste your time. Tell them, "that's okay, I'm actually looking for a date, not just a friendly get together, you don't even need to give me your phone number cause I doubt if we'd be expecting the same thing if we went out".
I like this approach, that's what I should have done because it's more assertive in establishing your intentions.
Rule #2: Don't wait to ask for the phone number or give her your phone number first. Again, it's a issue of being assertive.
Damn, these rule should be common sense to me by now.
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Mellow