"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New Routine: Field tested

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what if girl answers 'no' to first question of you? ;)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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How about rather than asking her questions and just interpreting her answers, tell her what she is straight up. That's COLD READING. If you ask questions you're interviewing, and if she told you what she does in each situation then you're just showing active listening skills, not cold reading.

Cold Reading would be where you walk up and accurately tell her what her personality is and tell her what she would do in every situation and she will be amazed at how you knew this.
 

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Shezz. Don't take it the wrong way.

Thats the most innovative thing I've seen reported on in my entire time at sosuave (that I can remember atleast).

Personally, I thought that it sounded a little bit to much like market research - interveiw type thing.

But you're on the right track. I hope to see more of this.
 
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