"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New Routine: Field tested

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what if girl answers 'no' to first question of you? ;)
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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How about rather than asking her questions and just interpreting her answers, tell her what she is straight up. That's COLD READING. If you ask questions you're interviewing, and if she told you what she does in each situation then you're just showing active listening skills, not cold reading.

Cold Reading would be where you walk up and accurately tell her what her personality is and tell her what she would do in every situation and she will be amazed at how you knew this.
 

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Shezz. Don't take it the wrong way.

Thats the most innovative thing I've seen reported on in my entire time at sosuave (that I can remember atleast).

Personally, I thought that it sounded a little bit to much like market research - interveiw type thing.

But you're on the right track. I hope to see more of this.
 
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