"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New Routine: Field tested

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what if girl answers 'no' to first question of you? ;)
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I'm Joe Dirt

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How about rather than asking her questions and just interpreting her answers, tell her what she is straight up. That's COLD READING. If you ask questions you're interviewing, and if she told you what she does in each situation then you're just showing active listening skills, not cold reading.

Cold Reading would be where you walk up and accurately tell her what her personality is and tell her what she would do in every situation and she will be amazed at how you knew this.
 

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Shezz. Don't take it the wrong way.

Thats the most innovative thing I've seen reported on in my entire time at sosuave (that I can remember atleast).

Personally, I thought that it sounded a little bit to much like market research - interveiw type thing.

But you're on the right track. I hope to see more of this.
 
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