New reality: Women are paying to go to single events, men are free - men still not showing up!

[BillyPilgrim]

The women who go to these things are surrounded by men in their daily lives and have online dating profiles on half a dozen sites yet they are so insufferable that they are paying money to try to meet men in this environment. That should tell you everything you need to know about the these folks. If you wanna go and tell them what they want to hear by pretending to be a leftist weirdo to get in their pants then you've probably got a shot at it being worth your time, but otherwise you're better off doing just about anything else instead.

Ya but the other half are right wing weirdos who will overhear you pretending to be a leftist.

 

[MatureDJ]

I've always been a fan of dating events - the women there are at the most attainable that they will ever be, as they figure that they aren't getting many dates, and so they think that they might have to lower the price to move the merchandise.

 

[MatureDJ]

The women who go to these things are surrounded by men in their daily lives and have online dating profiles on half a dozen sites yet they are so insufferable that they are paying money to try to meet men in this environment. That should tell you everything you need to know about the these folks. If you wanna go and tell them what they want to hear by pretending to be a leftist weirdo to get in their pants then you've probably got a shot at it being worth your time, but otherwise you're better off doing just about anything else instead.

And these chicks realize that the not much is going to come from OLD, so they figure they need to meet up with men in real life. This is where the man that meets them at their most vulnerable situation is able to do something.

 

[MatureDJ]

I think the bigger question is why would any guy attend one of these events knowing the above is true?

And so what would one of those guys be doing if not at that event? Macking at the Nightclub? BWAHAHAHA!

 

[MatureDJ]

There is no way you can say a woman's SMV is super-high, no matter what her age and the wall is myth, and an event like this even existing where women are paying $ 100 and guys are going in for free. Something socially has shifted.

I agree.

 

[Solomon]

I remember when I use to sell applicances this decent guy who was 35 at the time went to one and mentioned the average age of women was 40-65ish. That was 20 years ago. My point or thought, I don't think prime age women 18-29 are going to these events. Why would they need too? a girl 18-22 can meet men in college a girl 22-29 can meet men via social circle or out in the wild. Typically, it's older women who go to these single events. I could be wrong and maybe it's changed in the last 20 years but gong of what I see around me locally and having to talk to girls in various age groups most women prefer to meet men close to their proximity, even when they do online dating

As far as men? not sure why would attend these events espeically in NYC which is a more favorable dating market for guys

 

[Gamisch]

It was not like that before though. In the past, guys used to be the ones paying and women would go into these events for free. Now in 2026 we see there is a roll reversal and women are paying and guys are free, however, guys are still not showing up. Why would you say there is such a role reversal compared to the past if these are great places to meet women then? The only next worst level is to get women to pay even more (ie like $ 200) and start paying men $ 100 cash to show up.

What happened? I thought posters like our late-friend would come and argue that the SMVs of women are through the roof. That a 70 year old woman is better off than a 20 year old decent looking guy in terms of SMV and we are seeing something like this buckle that idea. Anyone wishing to take up our late-friend's mantle and argue that women's SMV's are still sky high and unless you are chad or have the total packagej, etc... you are bascially very low. This is something that either looks like a pendulum shift and SMVs are adjusted.

There is no way you can say a woman's SMV is super-high, no matter what her age and the wall is myth, and an event like this even existing where women are paying $ 100 and guys are going in for free. Something socially has shifted.

I geuss you've missed the lesson about female nature. As mentiod before: don't you EVER think these women are on dryspells. They just want something " better". Better might be both quality wise, but could also simply be a serious ltr instead of Pookie/ Chad who only calls her when he's drunk after 3 o'clock...

As long as there's prostitution( oldest proffesion) women be able to get d1ck on demand. But what's attached to said d1ck is another story...


And about the men: imo a man who is somewhat smart will avoid such a humiliation ritual. I always say that COLLECTIVELY women might have a lot of wishes, yet INDIVIDUALLY they gonna " like what they like". So yes, she might say a good man blahblah meanwhile she STILL fecks pookie rather than Good guy Gregory....I seriously believe that women don't really respect men who attend these events. It might change tho..how? When wonen COLLECTIVELY( global sisterhood) decide that it's " okay" to find a serious partner via speeddating,kinda like what happened to OLD. I vividly remember how my ex went from " real men approach feck OLD" straight to " I kinda understand that Chad the construction worker has no time to approach me thus I have to meet him( THEM) via OLD. Bait and switch ...


And here's the kicker: BOTH the incel and CHad have their own experiences why they should NOT attend to such an event.

The incel ...well.. he is already mentally beaten down by women and knows he won't get any

And Chad ? He knows by now that the 5/ 6 ( with a sprinkle of hb7 on a good day) will overvalue herself and STILL believes she's somehow better than him( Chad ). So eventually both Incel and Chad will lose. Yes Chad will feck, but it will be a costly feck as it will/ might come with tons of drama.

Of speed dating was literally a speedy way to get p00sy, we'd be the first to know!

 

[Bokanovsky]

Didn't think I'd ever expect to see this development. Looks like there is a wall afterall.

These women expect the six figure, six foot tall, six pack to show up for them?

How old are these women? What do they look like? I have a hard time believing that hot women in their 20's or even early 30's are paying $100 to attend some tacofest singles event. It's a concept that seems totally incompatible with reality.

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah, it's easier to stay home in your sweatpants and glued to your keyboard, groaning over all the lucky breaks that never came your way, rather than

-Get up out of your chair

-Shower, shave, throw on deodorant

-Put on fresh clothes

-Stroll on over to one of these gatherings, where men are free, and women are paying

So many modern men refusing to exploit opportunities that've essentially been handed to them on a silver platter, all for the sake of not experiencing what's ultimately bound to be mild discomfort, is less astounding than the sight of so many young women choosing to become OF THOTs in lieu of a regular career

Only way it might work is like this

By talimg it with a truck load of salt. You can go, zero expectations and who knows?

It will always be way better than "eternal nothingness ". But me tho?... nah I'm good!

 

[Solomon]

How old are these women? What do they look like? I have a hard time believing that hot women in their 20's or even early 30's are paying $100 to attend some tacofest singles event. It's a concept that seems totally incompatible with reality.

Notice the main picture in the video is an AI picture of the same girl in different hair color and outfits etc
IMO you're better of meeting hot women at a fashion event or even a bar peddle bike bar crawl

 

[BaronOfHair]

It will always be way better than "eternal nothingness ". But me tho?... nah I'm good!

Yeah, while I'm not a fan of these events myself, they're the dating and mating equivalent of fast food... If a fella requires something quick and easy, it's out there

 

[Gamisch]

Yeah, while I'm not a fan of these events myself, they're the dating and mating equivalent of fast food... If a fella requires something quick and easy, it's out there

Absolutely.

Overhere we got legal prostitution and especially the Caribbean dudes always told me;

Even if you visit a hooker you gotta go fly to death. Dressed to kill, smelling good ect. At the end of the day a hooker is just/ still a woman...

If you apply this knowledge to speeddating you might actually slay. Dressed sharp, acting like a kid in the candy shop ,big smile and shyte just happy to be around wet punani LOL. Knowing this IS all wet punani looking for d1ck

J geuss most men still go like they / we do OLD; serious somewhat desperate demeanour, eating rejections like bodyshots from prime Iron Mike completely defeated attitude after the first two or three rejection Ms..

Now I write this I kinda sense that OLD ,the club and speeddating are basically the same thing. All of them have women who seemingly are lonely yet we know the dynamics in both the club and on OLD...so I wouldn't be surprised if speeddating is kinda the same! ( most men will struggle)

 

[BaronOfHair]

Absolutely.

Overhere we got legal prostitution and especially the Caribbean dudes always told me;

Even if you visit a hooker you gotta go fly to death. Dressed to kill, smelling good ect. At the end of the day a hooker is just/ still a woman...

If you apply this knowledge to speeddating you might actually slay. Dressed sharp, acting like a kid in the candy shop ,big smile and shyte just happy to be around wet punani LOL. Knowing this IS all wet punani looking for d1ck

J geuss most men still go like they / we do OLD; serious somewhat desperate demeanour, eating rejections like bodyshots from prime Iron Mike completely defeated attitude after the first two or three rejection Ms..

Now I write this I kinda sense that OLD ,the club and speeddating are basically the same thing. All of them have women who seemingly are lonely yet we know the dynamics in both the club and on OLD...so I wouldn't be surprised if speeddating is kinda the same! ( most men will struggle)

Yeah, as Ed Latimore(and others)have pointed out: Getting laid, like becoming "a gangster" isn't tough... There's always a gal out there so suffiently desperate, she'll let damned near everything + kitchen sink up the poonany, same way there's always a criminal organization who'll accept an offer for extra muscle, that's also easily disposable

Becoming the sort of fella widely admired by his fellow men and desired by women, even those who consider themselves adversaries, is similar to not remaining another throw-away thug, instead rising to kingpin status or something adjacent....


THAT requires educating oneself + Putting what one's learned into practice on a regularly basis, therefore MOST folks choose to avoid such discomfort. For every Tony Arcado or Frank Matthews, there's a billion random Paulies and Laquans who ended up gunned down or smacked with life without the possibility of parole, after less than two weeks in the game

 

[BadBoy89]

Yeah, it's easier to stay home in your sweatpants and glued to your keyboard, groaning over all the lucky breaks that never came your way, rather than
-Get up out of your chair
-Shower, shave, throw on deodorant
-Put on fresh clothes
-Stroll on over to one of these gatherings, where men are free, and women are paying
So many modern men refusing to exploit opportunities that've essentially been handed to them on a silver platter, all for the sake of not experiencing what's ultimately bound to be mild discomfort

I'll do 100x times this if the girls at these gatherings are 22 and hot and have only slept with 1 guy.

Anything other? I'd rather stay at home in my jeans and shirt glued to my keyboard, reading about the US Iran war on a Saturday night.

 

[BaronOfHair]

I'd rather stay at home in my jeans and shirt glued to my keyboard, reading about the US Iran war on a Saturday night.

I recommend consuming actual literature

 

[LTG71]

His explanation starts at 13:30. Sounds like a legitimate explanation. These are near wall or post wall women with high expectations but their time has expired. Attractive women in lower age brackets are likely not in this predicament. Men don’t show up because the return is not that great. Like going to a used car lot to find that one car that is not a POS, yet the dealer has everything over priced and offers no warranty. Guys learn that it’s not worth their time and effort.

 

[tksniper]

If you guys have ever seen a high value good looking man in real life, you’d notice he is completely indifferent.

There is a fear of lost that he makes women feel. They don’t try to play games with him. There is also a sense of urgency that he makes women feel. Women feel like they need to show direct interest. There’s also social proof. Multiple women in the same vicinity will show him interest, thus validating his status.

Fear of lost, sense of urgency, indifference, and social proof.

I just explained attraction in less than 100 words.

 

[Fortune_favors_the_bold]

Men that are liked from women dont need to go to such events.

Men that are disliked from women will only simply be ingnored or mistreated with the extra hit of being obvious the fact that they are trying hard and not just happening to be there like a gym or a bar.

The trush is that ANY dating event wheter in person or online is nothing more than a humiliation ritual for the average guy.

It's not that men suddenly in the 2020s decided to be lazy, gay, scared or any shaming attempt again them you can hear...it's just that men are rational actor and when the value of the goal or the chences to obtain it dont match the effort and the risk, they simply bail.

 

[FlexpertHamilton]

please don't post BB he's a clown who makes clickbaity videos that are nothing but sensationalized hyperbole. al he ever talks about is how much women must be suffering from him and other "MGTOWs" withdrawing from dating.

i promise this is not the "new reality". women do not notice or give a fvck. MGTOW cope.

 

[corrector]

please don't post BB he's a clown who makes clickbaity videos that are nothing but sensationalized hyperbole. al he ever talks about is how much women must be suffering from him and other "MGTOWs" withdrawing from dating.

i promise this is not the "new reality". women do not notice or give a fvck. MGTOW cope.

The thing is different people are posting similar videos about the same topic.

In case you are too lazy to simply go on youtube and do a search "women paying for singles no guys showing up", I just did that for you:

https://www.youtube.com/results?search_query=women+paying+for+singles+no+guys+show+up

It's not just him.