"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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kegger

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Ok, well now I have a girl friend, the second one. She has said to hang in with me until I can over come my problems but I need your help. It seems like I have this emotional barrier that is keeping me from doing anything, kissing, holding hands, hugging, ect. We really don't want anyone to know yet but I am also trying to get over that also. I really need some encouragement about right now so I can make some advances. I know kino is important but I just cant get your started. Please help me before I loose this girl. It seems to embarrassing to me since I haven't really had a girl before. Ok, well now I have a girl friend, the second one. She has said to hang in with me until I can over come my problems but I need your help. It seems like I have this emotional barrier that is keeping me from doing anything, kissing, holding hands, hugging, ect. We really don't want anyone to know yet but I am also trying to get over that also. I really need some encouragement about right now so I can make some advances. I know kino is important but I just cant get your started. Please help me before I loose this girl. It seems to embarrassing me since I haven't really had a girl before.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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originaldj

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What doo you want people to tell you? Honestly you have your question and you know your answer. The members of this site won't help you grow some ***** ur going to have to do that yourself and make a move
 
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