Ok, well now I have a girl friend, the second one. She has said to hang in with me until I can over come my problems but I need your help. It seems like I have this emotional barrier that is keeping me from doing anything, kissing, holding hands, hugging, ect. We really don't want anyone to know yet but I am also trying to get over that also. I really need some encouragement about right now so I can make some advances. I know kino is important but I just cant get your started. Please help me before I loose this girl. It seems to embarrassing to me since I haven't really had a girl before. Ok, well now I have a girl friend, the second one. She has said to hang in with me until I can over come my problems but I need your help. It seems like I have this emotional barrier that is keeping me from doing anything, kissing, holding hands, hugging, ect. We really don't want anyone to know yet but I am also trying to get over that also. I really need some encouragement about right now so I can make some advances. I know kino is important but I just cant get your started. Please help me before I loose this girl. It seems to embarrassing me since I haven't really had a girl before.