"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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new problem, fellow HSDJs

Cassanova_Child

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I'm moving. From New York. No, not to another state.

To Norway (my stepdad's norwegian and he's going to get paid better there or something).

Here's the problem:

1) everything I've learned about this whole thing has been with american girls, and for some reason I think european's are going to be a different mindset entirely. my comedy won't work probably, etc...

2) I DONT SPEAK NORWEGIAN! ok, so the foreigner thing might be able to help in some situations... but still, how can I get with women, when I can't communicate with them?

gaah. I'm not even sure if this is a big deal or not, or if I'm sweating it too much. Really just wanted to vent lol.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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mpimpin

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Relax buddy. See this as an exciting new opportunity!! New girls.. probably lots of fine girls! Use the foreign status as a positive. You can use it in openers etc. You can't screw up! and if you somehow do something stupid they'll let things slide because you are from a different culture in their eyes you don't know better.

I'm sure you have a lot of other things going on in your life. Don't waste time stressing about your game after you move.
 

Schotten

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This is nothing but a great thing for your game. European women is giving nearly everything for a man from the states.. Trust me, I hate turists from the states.
 

War Against Betaism

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Confidence, poise, game knows no language barriers and limitations. The thing is you're going to be losing confidence because you think you need to speak the same language as them. Just be the same confident guy you were before and learn the language slowly, you don't need to fret.
 

nateistoraw

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USA USA USA USA! GOD BLESS THE USA!
Dude, you got it made. lol

"I'm sorry, in my home country we could just rub ladies breasts to check for cancer"


lol, that would be freaking awesome if it worked.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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alright guys thanks, I've calmed down a lot lol. I was just having a bunch of nerves before I guess. Just have to look at the positives and not the negatives.
 

eaglez1177

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Excellent advice by pimpin and betaism.

Dont worry about the language barrier at all though, like beta said, "Confidence, poise, game knows no language barriers and limitations" (I like that quote). Even if you learned a few words here and there, such as "Hello, my name is ----", and then gave them a smile while saying it, I bet they would go crazy over you! They would be thinking stuff like "Aww omg his accent is so cute! Hes American and hes really cute and sexy". Trust me, thats EXACTLY what will go through their minds.
 
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