Ok i have some advice for new comming people, who are learning the ways of a DJ. Latley there have been alot of new people comming to these forums posted newbie questions. Basicly they will read one article on the site and then come and try to get advice from all of us. I may not be a master Don Juan yet, but within the last 2 months my success with women has grown dramaticly, and I didn't do it from asking for tons of advice. I acually gave about 4 times more advice than I have recieved on this forum; but how I have became successfull, well simple I read and read and read. I have read almost all of the articles on the articles section except for a few that doesn't really apply to me or I don't need. I still read articles and come to this site almost everyday to see whats new and update myself. But don't just read these articles do them. Pretty much this whole thread in a nutshell is telling you new ppl to acually read some stuff defently any articles about confidence, attitude, or charm, and don't look at a title and say "I already know about eye contact I don't need to read that". A Simple Touch that sounds gay Im not going to read that". So read as much as you can before coming and asking questions about how your freaking out because you don't know if this girl likes you, or if to call today or tomorrow, or why did she not not talk to me today in class, any of that kind of stuff untill you learn the things you need to and how to not let women cause you so much hassle. But the main thing is those 3 I said cofidence, attitude, and charm are the main things you need to know about before you start to persue women.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
New ppl read this
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.