Ok i have some advice for new comming people, who are learning the ways of a DJ. Latley there have been alot of new people comming to these forums posted newbie questions. Basicly they will read one article on the site and then come and try to get advice from all of us. I may not be a master Don Juan yet, but within the last 2 months my success with women has grown dramaticly, and I didn't do it from asking for tons of advice. I acually gave about 4 times more advice than I have recieved on this forum; but how I have became successfull, well simple I read and read and read. I have read almost all of the articles on the articles section except for a few that doesn't really apply to me or I don't need. I still read articles and come to this site almost everyday to see whats new and update myself. But don't just read these articles do them. Pretty much this whole thread in a nutshell is telling you new ppl to acually read some stuff defently any articles about confidence, attitude, or charm, and don't look at a title and say "I already know about eye contact I don't need to read that". A Simple Touch that sounds gay Im not going to read that". So read as much as you can before coming and asking questions about how your freaking out because you don't know if this girl likes you, or if to call today or tomorrow, or why did she not not talk to me today in class, any of that kind of stuff untill you learn the things you need to and how to not let women cause you so much hassle. But the main thing is those 3 I said cofidence, attitude, and charm are the main things you need to know about before you start to persue women.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
New ppl read this
- Thread starter djweses89
- Start date
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.