Ok i have some advice for new comming people, who are learning the ways of a DJ. Latley there have been alot of new people comming to these forums posted newbie questions. Basicly they will read one article on the site and then come and try to get advice from all of us. I may not be a master Don Juan yet, but within the last 2 months my success with women has grown dramaticly, and I didn't do it from asking for tons of advice. I acually gave about 4 times more advice than I have recieved on this forum; but how I have became successfull, well simple I read and read and read. I have read almost all of the articles on the articles section except for a few that doesn't really apply to me or I don't need. I still read articles and come to this site almost everyday to see whats new and update myself. But don't just read these articles do them. Pretty much this whole thread in a nutshell is telling you new ppl to acually read some stuff defently any articles about confidence, attitude, or charm, and don't look at a title and say "I already know about eye contact I don't need to read that". A Simple Touch that sounds gay Im not going to read that". So read as much as you can before coming and asking questions about how your freaking out because you don't know if this girl likes you, or if to call today or tomorrow, or why did she not not talk to me today in class, any of that kind of stuff untill you learn the things you need to and how to not let women cause you so much hassle. But the main thing is those 3 I said cofidence, attitude, and charm are the main things you need to know about before you start to persue women.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
New ppl read this
- Thread starter djweses89
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
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