"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Lean??? Hardly. Strength freak hands down.

Marcusz Pudkinownski,or however you spell that dudes name always came with a respectable bodyfat. Dude was a freak. Too bad he's constantly banned for abusing gear though.
 

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blinkwatt101 said:
Lean??? Hardly. Strength freak hands down.

Marcusz Pudkinownski,or however you spell that dudes name always came with a respectable bodyfat. Dude was a freak. Too bad he's constantly banned for abusing gear though.

Wrong.

Pudzianowski was suspended in 2004 for allegedly failing a recreational drug test. WSM does NOT test for anabolics. IFSA does, but there are ways around this.

Basically if WSM started implementing serious drug testing for anabolics, they would lose money and it would be bad for the sport. More guys would get caught, resulting in unbalanced competition, more controversy, and a general loss of interest by the public. There are a few natural competitors (by self-admission) but face it, people want to see big motherf*ckers lift big things. It's not in their best interest as WSM has the greatest public appeal out of all the elite strongman championships.

Also, how can you say Derek Poundstone is not lean?!? Any man who weighs OVER 320 lbs and still has visible abs and serratus is lean, dude. You might be 160 and 5% bf, but you are 160 lbs. Were talking a guy DOUBLE your body weight, with most of that being muscle. I'd say right now he's around 10%. That is phenomenal and close to the same level Pudzianowski rolls in at. Anabolics? No doubt, but drugs or no drugs these guys are freaks of nature.
 

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Pudzianowski was suspended in 2004 for allegedly failing a recreational drug test. WSM does NOT test for anabolics. IFSA does, but there are ways around this.

Double check your work.

He initially finished third in the WSM contest in 2004 but was later disqualified after testing positive for a banned performance enhancing substance. He was forced to return his prize money, stripped of the International Federation of Strength Athletes points from the event, and received a one-year ban from competition. Pudzianowski did not dispute his banned substance violation and waived his right to have his stool sample verified.

A banned performance enhancing substance doesn't necessarily mean anabolics. Could be hgh amongst a ton of other things.

Basically if WSM started implementing serious drug testing for anabolics, they would lose money and it would be bad for the sport. More guys would get caught, resulting in unbalanced competition, more controversy, and a general loss of interest by the public. There are a few natural competitors (by self-admission) but face it, people want to see big motherf*ckers lift big things. It's not in their best interest as WSM has the greatest public appeal out of all the elite strongman championships.

Newsflash,performance enhancing substances are banned everywhere. No matter what you do. I have friends who've taken stuff for physical appeal, college football and I had a girlfriend who abused albuterol to lose weight. IFBB says they test for stuff as well.....Yeah we all see how that has gone.


Also, how can you say Derek Poundstone is not lean?!? Any man who weighs OVER 320 lbs and still has visible abs and serratus is lean, dude. You might be 160 and 5% bf, but you are 160 lbs. Were talking a guy DOUBLE your body weight, with most of that being muscle. I'd say right now he's around 10%. That is phenomenal and close to the same level Pudzianowski rolls in at. Anabolics? No doubt, but drugs or no drugs these guys are freaks of nature.

No doubt those dudes are freaks and VERY strong but fat is fat dude. If your over 8% bodyfat,your fat in my book. Even after a big meals anyone at 4%-6% can look fat when they are bloated. People can have abs at 14%,doesn't mean much at the beach or come time for a photo shoot though. If your abs aren't flush with your mid section and I mean if there is any girth essentially from your higher outer and inner v section to the lowest 2 abs you've lost a few grand from a photo shoot.

That's just my way of seeing things. Guess everyone has a difference of what lean is though.
 

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Hah, photo shoot. Sorry beach boy.

I did double check my work by the way. Your source is a Wikipedia excerpt that has no citation. I'd venture to day I know more about strongman than you. If WSM ran serious drug testing there would be no competition. Pros will tell you this. Of course PEDs are banned. Every sports organization says they "test", but outside of the Olympics the stringency and frequency of testing standards varies tremendously. It comes down to whatever is in the best interest of the organization.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yep it was from wikipedia. As well as other websites but there is nothing that says it was for conventional drug like weed. WSM,just as Mr.Olympia is driven by what the fans want. They know their competitors use PEDs,just a matter if the $ coming in is worth them taking a public hit for knowing people are using PED in their sports and not cleaning up their act. Look at WWE,PED were NEVER and issue when they are popular and the 'in' thing. But now that they are in the tank,they are cleaning up.
 
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