"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Lean??? Hardly. Strength freak hands down.

Marcusz Pudkinownski,or however you spell that dudes name always came with a respectable bodyfat. Dude was a freak. Too bad he's constantly banned for abusing gear though.
 

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blinkwatt101 said:
Lean??? Hardly. Strength freak hands down.

Marcusz Pudkinownski,or however you spell that dudes name always came with a respectable bodyfat. Dude was a freak. Too bad he's constantly banned for abusing gear though.

Wrong.

Pudzianowski was suspended in 2004 for allegedly failing a recreational drug test. WSM does NOT test for anabolics. IFSA does, but there are ways around this.

Basically if WSM started implementing serious drug testing for anabolics, they would lose money and it would be bad for the sport. More guys would get caught, resulting in unbalanced competition, more controversy, and a general loss of interest by the public. There are a few natural competitors (by self-admission) but face it, people want to see big motherf*ckers lift big things. It's not in their best interest as WSM has the greatest public appeal out of all the elite strongman championships.

Also, how can you say Derek Poundstone is not lean?!? Any man who weighs OVER 320 lbs and still has visible abs and serratus is lean, dude. You might be 160 and 5% bf, but you are 160 lbs. Were talking a guy DOUBLE your body weight, with most of that being muscle. I'd say right now he's around 10%. That is phenomenal and close to the same level Pudzianowski rolls in at. Anabolics? No doubt, but drugs or no drugs these guys are freaks of nature.
 

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Pudzianowski was suspended in 2004 for allegedly failing a recreational drug test. WSM does NOT test for anabolics. IFSA does, but there are ways around this.

Double check your work.

He initially finished third in the WSM contest in 2004 but was later disqualified after testing positive for a banned performance enhancing substance. He was forced to return his prize money, stripped of the International Federation of Strength Athletes points from the event, and received a one-year ban from competition. Pudzianowski did not dispute his banned substance violation and waived his right to have his stool sample verified.

A banned performance enhancing substance doesn't necessarily mean anabolics. Could be hgh amongst a ton of other things.

Basically if WSM started implementing serious drug testing for anabolics, they would lose money and it would be bad for the sport. More guys would get caught, resulting in unbalanced competition, more controversy, and a general loss of interest by the public. There are a few natural competitors (by self-admission) but face it, people want to see big motherf*ckers lift big things. It's not in their best interest as WSM has the greatest public appeal out of all the elite strongman championships.

Newsflash,performance enhancing substances are banned everywhere. No matter what you do. I have friends who've taken stuff for physical appeal, college football and I had a girlfriend who abused albuterol to lose weight. IFBB says they test for stuff as well.....Yeah we all see how that has gone.


Also, how can you say Derek Poundstone is not lean?!? Any man who weighs OVER 320 lbs and still has visible abs and serratus is lean, dude. You might be 160 and 5% bf, but you are 160 lbs. Were talking a guy DOUBLE your body weight, with most of that being muscle. I'd say right now he's around 10%. That is phenomenal and close to the same level Pudzianowski rolls in at. Anabolics? No doubt, but drugs or no drugs these guys are freaks of nature.

No doubt those dudes are freaks and VERY strong but fat is fat dude. If your over 8% bodyfat,your fat in my book. Even after a big meals anyone at 4%-6% can look fat when they are bloated. People can have abs at 14%,doesn't mean much at the beach or come time for a photo shoot though. If your abs aren't flush with your mid section and I mean if there is any girth essentially from your higher outer and inner v section to the lowest 2 abs you've lost a few grand from a photo shoot.

That's just my way of seeing things. Guess everyone has a difference of what lean is though.
 

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Hah, photo shoot. Sorry beach boy.

I did double check my work by the way. Your source is a Wikipedia excerpt that has no citation. I'd venture to day I know more about strongman than you. If WSM ran serious drug testing there would be no competition. Pros will tell you this. Of course PEDs are banned. Every sports organization says they "test", but outside of the Olympics the stringency and frequency of testing standards varies tremendously. It comes down to whatever is in the best interest of the organization.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Yep it was from wikipedia. As well as other websites but there is nothing that says it was for conventional drug like weed. WSM,just as Mr.Olympia is driven by what the fans want. They know their competitors use PEDs,just a matter if the $ coming in is worth them taking a public hit for knowing people are using PED in their sports and not cleaning up their act. Look at WWE,PED were NEVER and issue when they are popular and the 'in' thing. But now that they are in the tank,they are cleaning up.
 
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