"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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New POF message getting results. hahaha

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I thought of a new ridiculous email to spam to chicks on POF. So far it's working pretty damn good!

(I'm using nothing but selfies in the mirror as profile pics.)


"Please pardon my Introduction/Come on/Rejection message but..you're smiling too much and doing too many things in your pics to end up with an unsmiling guy like me taking selfies in his bathroom like a certified idiot...It would never work out between us..lol"


Getting several pretty damn good looking chicks to reply and start back and forth before getting the digits.

I'll back off on calling/texting them till I see what goes on with the 24 yo Saturday..
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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HumbleNinja said:
I thought of a new ridiculous email to spam to chicks on POF. So far it's working pretty damn good!

(I'm using nothing but selfies in the mirror as profile pics.)


"Please pardon my Introduction/Come on/Rejection message but..you're smiling too much and doing too many things in your pics to end up with an unsmiling guy like me taking selfies in his bathroom like a certified idiot...It would never work out between us..lol"


Getting several pretty damn good looking chicks to reply and start back and forth before getting the digits.

I'll back off on calling/texting them till I see what goes on with the 24 yo Saturday..
This would not work for a b̶l̶a̶c̶k̶ colored guy.....

:crackup:
 

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My introduction/description got me banned in the end. Thanks SS for forcing the "red pill" down my neck. It feels pretty damn good....
 

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4north1side2 said:
If your attractive, you'll get responses no matter what.
Maybe in NYC where Ninja lives but where I live POF women are to stupid to understand sarcasm, I've tried some of his copy/pasta's in the past and they didn't work for me because the women are dumb and have no sense of humor

EDit: You're right when you're attractive online dating is a breeze but most of us here are average looking guys on top of that if you are attractive you can meet girls easily in the field and not trashy pof women
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Solomon said:
Maybe in NYC where Ninja lives but where I live POF women are to stupid to understand sarcasm, I've tried some of his copy/pasta's in the past and they didn't work for me because the women are dumb and have no sense of humor

EDit: You're right when you're attractive online dating is a breeze but most of us here are average looking guys on top of that if you are attractive you can meet girls easily in the field and not trashy pof women

Solo everyone should know that the better you look in your pictures the more these chicks "understand" sarcasm and the "funnier" you become.

Even for myself. I get a good amount of favorable replies but also a few "rejections" and non responses.

Same chicks I'd tested on using realistic photos of a model caliber dude with a lame message and every chick who responded thought "he" was "so funny".

I take everything on there with a grain of salt. It's easier to not care about it when you've got other options and things going on in life than to worry about POF chicks. They only care about the look of the dude in the pictures 90%. The 10% rest is the opener and chat.
 
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