"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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New POF message getting results. hahaha

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I thought of a new ridiculous email to spam to chicks on POF. So far it's working pretty damn good!

(I'm using nothing but selfies in the mirror as profile pics.)


"Please pardon my Introduction/Come on/Rejection message but..you're smiling too much and doing too many things in your pics to end up with an unsmiling guy like me taking selfies in his bathroom like a certified idiot...It would never work out between us..lol"


Getting several pretty damn good looking chicks to reply and start back and forth before getting the digits.

I'll back off on calling/texting them till I see what goes on with the 24 yo Saturday..
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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HumbleNinja said:
I thought of a new ridiculous email to spam to chicks on POF. So far it's working pretty damn good!

(I'm using nothing but selfies in the mirror as profile pics.)


"Please pardon my Introduction/Come on/Rejection message but..you're smiling too much and doing too many things in your pics to end up with an unsmiling guy like me taking selfies in his bathroom like a certified idiot...It would never work out between us..lol"


Getting several pretty damn good looking chicks to reply and start back and forth before getting the digits.

I'll back off on calling/texting them till I see what goes on with the 24 yo Saturday..
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This would not work for a b̶l̶a̶c̶k̶ colored guy.....

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My introduction/description got me banned in the end. Thanks SS for forcing the "red pill" down my neck. It feels pretty damn good....
 
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If your attractive, you'll get responses no matter what.
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Maybe in NYC where Ninja lives but where I live POF women are to stupid to understand sarcasm, I've tried some of his copy/pasta's in the past and they didn't work for me because the women are dumb and have no sense of humor

EDit: You're right when you're attractive online dating is a breeze but most of us here are average looking guys on top of that if you are attractive you can meet girls easily in the field and not trashy pof women
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maybe in NYC where Ninja lives but where I live POF women are to stupid to understand sarcasm, I've tried some of his copy/pasta's in the past and they didn't work for me because the women are dumb and have no sense of humor

EDit: You're right when you're attractive online dating is a breeze but most of us here are average looking guys on top of that if you are attractive you can meet girls easily in the field and not trashy pof women
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Solo everyone should know that the better you look in your pictures the more these chicks "understand" sarcasm and the "funnier" you become.

Even for myself. I get a good amount of favorable replies but also a few "rejections" and non responses.

Same chicks I'd tested on using realistic photos of a model caliber dude with a lame message and every chick who responded thought "he" was "so funny".

I take everything on there with a grain of salt. It's easier to not care about it when you've got other options and things going on in life than to worry about POF chicks. They only care about the look of the dude in the pictures 90%. The 10% rest is the opener and chat.
 
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