New plate

[Nn877]

Okay so I potentially might have a new plate...started flirty text here and there. Pulled the number from the bar, she's a mutual friend of a friend, we all went out.

I was preoccupied with work and what not thoughout the week...she actually mentioned we should grab drinks this weekend.

A day or two ago she asked for my picture for her contacts lol more like to show a friend of hers for validation. So I sent her the best pic I had and now she's been texting nonstop.

Any tips on how escalating this weekend? I don't want to not fall into the dating role as she's coming on strong in the "we should do this and that" stuff.

 

[wifehunter]

One of these, should do nicely.

 

[AlphaNate]

Allow her to keep acting like a needy b*tch. Don't let her pull you into that frame.

Are you actually asking for help escalating? Touch her arm, kiss her, bite her neck, grab her ass, put your **** in her throat. The end.

 

[Nn877]

Escalating to that kind of frame is what I meant

 

[Bingo-Player]

you dont need to over complicate this

shes keen , your keen .....you just need to appear slightly less keen than she is

go for evening drinks , none of this middle of the day sh1t pick a bar which has a nice vibe but isnt too loud you cant hear each other speak , having somewhere to sit is also essential

have 3 maybe 4 drinks over the course of like 2 hours with heavy flirting and touching

then suggest you grab a bottle of ( insert alcoholic beverage of choice ) and head home

the rest is self explanatory

 

[wifehunter]

I've always let thing's escalate on their own...it's nature that does all that stuff. I mean, look around you? You think all these people got here, by their parents being concerned about escalating?

I'd be more concerned, about halting any escalation with trash. Run away! Flee!!!

 

[marmel75]

This is not a plate. How many times do we have to go through this here?

Plate = woman you are regularly banging.

You haven't even been on a date with this chick yet.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

This is not a plate. How many times do we have to go through this here?

Plate = woman you are regularly banging.

You haven't even been on a date with this chick yet.

Chill dude, he said used the word 'potential' beforehand.

OP, just keep doing what you think you should do. You got this bro.

 

[marmel75]

Chill dude, he said used the word 'potential' beforehand.

OP, just keep doing what you think you should do. You got this bro.

The title of the thread is "New Plate". It's a misleading title. Instead it should be titled random chick I never met who I think is already my girl. SMH at these dudes...

 

[marmel75]

I read pretty well. It would be like me titling a thread "I'm a millionaire" and then talking about how I might be rich cause I bought a lottery ticket.

 

[Nn877]

i just came out of a 2 year relationship, I'm a little rusty so was looking for some tips. @marmel75 take your rants somewhere else bro, if you don't like the title or what am asking why waste your time to respond? I'll PM you next time what's an appropriate title and if my question on a forum passes your approval.

Anyways, so she came by went out for drinks, kept the kino up and ended coming back to my place. We fooled around, she wouldn't let me have sex with her but got head. Solid night back out there.

 

[GT40]

Nice work. Don't push her.
She gave you a BJ so next time you'll get the prize. Just be cool.
Instigating
Isolated
Escalating

 

[marmel75]

i just came out of a 2 year relationship, I'm a little rusty so was looking for some tips. @marmel75 take your rants somewhere else bro, if you don't like the title or what am asking why waste your time to respond? I'll PM you next time what's an appropriate title and if my question on a forum passes your approval.

Anyways, so she came by went out for drinks, kept the kino up and ended coming back to my place. We fooled around, she wouldn't let me have sex with her but got head. Solid night back out there.

Trust me, you'd know one my rants if you came across one and this isn't it. If you don't want to bother learning what the terminology means then simply don't use it.

 

[hockeyfreak79]

I read pretty well. It would be like me titling a thread "I'm a millionaire" and then talking about how I might be rich cause I bought a lottery ticket.

I bought 3 today. And a plane ticket for United Airlines.