"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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taiyuu_otoko

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Hello all, I just regged, and will be starting the bootcamp week1 tomorrow (friday the 11). I am american male, 41 y/o never married. I shall be posting my results in the appropriate places.

I currently live in Japan teaching English, and will be here for at least 15 more months. I have had sporadic AFC-ish luck with women in the past (like since I was 17), and I am looking forward to finally shrugging off old AFC self.

Taiyuu Otoko
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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j0n024

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Me too!!! But how did an American get a Japenese name? I have a question thought.......is japan like the movies where there are hot ass asians everywhere?!! I ask because me and my cousin want to visit that place and "Sarge" because I wanna fvck a damn asian! lol
 

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Too bad you couldn't get a job in the Former Soviet Union. I doubt if you would be having these problems ;) There are not that many English teachers here though. Just a bunch of Jesus Freaks, Mormon Missionaries, and spooky Soros Foundation types. Oh yeah, there is me and some black American basketball players as well. Life is Good :)

Question: Didn't the main English teaching organization in Japan end? Something about a scandal I was reading about in regards to that company. Heard that a lot of English language teachers were pissed about it.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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j0n024 said:
how did an American get a Japenese name?
by joining an internet forum where you can choose any name you want:D

j0n024 said:
is japan like the movies where there are hot ass asians everywhere?!!
pretty much.:D :D :D


meitenesrigas: yea, they were called NOVA, went belly up, big boss split with a bunch of cash, lots of teachers stranded with no income to pay rent so they had to go back home, and lots of Japanese were out lots of cash for prepaid lessons. Overall a fukked up situation.

As far as the former CCCP goes, I actually looked into working in Moscow (among other places) , but I chose Japan because

j0n024 said:
there are hot ass asians everywhere
:D :D :D :D :D :D

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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