"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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taiyuu_otoko

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Hello all, I just regged, and will be starting the bootcamp week1 tomorrow (friday the 11). I am american male, 41 y/o never married. I shall be posting my results in the appropriate places.

I currently live in Japan teaching English, and will be here for at least 15 more months. I have had sporadic AFC-ish luck with women in the past (like since I was 17), and I am looking forward to finally shrugging off old AFC self.

Taiyuu Otoko
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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j0n024

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Me too!!! But how did an American get a Japenese name? I have a question thought.......is japan like the movies where there are hot ass asians everywhere?!! I ask because me and my cousin want to visit that place and "Sarge" because I wanna fvck a damn asian! lol
 

meitenesrigas

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Too bad you couldn't get a job in the Former Soviet Union. I doubt if you would be having these problems ;) There are not that many English teachers here though. Just a bunch of Jesus Freaks, Mormon Missionaries, and spooky Soros Foundation types. Oh yeah, there is me and some black American basketball players as well. Life is Good :)

Question: Didn't the main English teaching organization in Japan end? Something about a scandal I was reading about in regards to that company. Heard that a lot of English language teachers were pissed about it.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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j0n024 said:
how did an American get a Japenese name?
by joining an internet forum where you can choose any name you want:D

j0n024 said:
is japan like the movies where there are hot ass asians everywhere?!!
pretty much.:D :D :D


meitenesrigas: yea, they were called NOVA, went belly up, big boss split with a bunch of cash, lots of teachers stranded with no income to pay rent so they had to go back home, and lots of Japanese were out lots of cash for prepaid lessons. Overall a fukked up situation.

As far as the former CCCP goes, I actually looked into working in Moscow (among other places) , but I chose Japan because

j0n024 said:
there are hot ass asians everywhere
:D :D :D :D :D :D

Taiyuu Otoko
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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