"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Jean Valjean said:
2. The gorgeous girl [...] admitted she is still in love with her ex and put me in LJBF after acting like I was the love of her life a few months ago, calling me all day, meeting me whenever, giving me the look of love.
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holy sh!t that exact same thing happened to me...minus the leaving wife part.....and yes it really does fcking suck dude lol

when it happened to me i basically just emotionally abused her and made her feel like sh!t for a month or so and called it even...although i still feel like a sucker afc....i dunno why i cant stop thinking about it and being mad about it....how can she just ditch me to get back with her ex?? i feel your pain threadstarter lol
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NC works!

Day 19 NC

Don't hurt anymore for gorgeous girl friend but still lonely as hell every night

Dudes the price of freedom is sky high when you're 52. Brothers learn from me.

My ex wife was not ugly always looked young but plain never emphasized beauty even when some would say she had it
Boy was she a great wife, I never had to worry always put me first, cleaned house, worked, respected by all

Comparing ex wife to my constant drama ex gorgeous young girl friend reminds me of the classic song

If You Wanna Be Happy For the Rest Of Your Life

If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you


A pretty woman makes her husband look small
And very often causes his downfall
As soon as he married her and then she starts
To do the things that will break his heart
But if you make an ugly woman your wife
A-you'll be happy for the rest of your life
An ug-a-ly woman cooks meals on time
And she'll always give you peace of mind


If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
[Sax solo]
Don't let your friends say you have no taste
Go ahead and marry anyway
Though her face is ugly, her eyes don't match
Take it from me, she's a better catch
If you wanna be happy for the rest of your life
Never make a pretty woman your wife
So for my personal point of view
Get an ugly girl to marry you
[Spoken:]
Say man!
Hey baby!
I saw your wife the other day!
Yeah?
Yeah, an' she's ug-leeee!
Yeah, she's ugly, but she sure can cook, baby!
Yeah, alright!
 
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Jean,hang in there buddy,day 19....thats good,you are being strong ....keep it up.
I know you must be lonely and regrets creep into your mind but don't let them bring you down,if you feel you must do something to get the wife back do it.I wish I had more insights to share.
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Hurray day 30 is today NC

Just want to kee my bros informed. today is day 30 NC with the ex gf.

Dpn't feel dependent on her anymore but miss the good times. Feel like contacting her today just for fun but don't want to open the box and start emailing her everyday again like we used to
 
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That b1tch will contact you in the near future I bet and she will come up with some excuse.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I feel your pain, bro, but this is just kinda creepy. Do you honestly believe she's gonna send you a message with a subject saying, "I want to **** you." or whatever else you're asking for? Come on. Think it through.

There's farrrrr better ways to get an ex-girlfriend back than this, but to each his own.

I say just give it up for good.

And wait, what does bpd mean? Please don't tell me it means bipolar disorder... If that's the case, run. The ****. Away.

Either way... Go find another girl.
 
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indigenous said:
I feel your pain, bro, but this is just kinda creepy. Do you honestly believe she's gonna send you a message with a subject saying, "I want to **** you." or whatever else you're asking for? Come on. Think it through.

There's farrrrr better ways to get an ex-girlfriend back than this, but to each his own.

I say just give it up for good.

And wait, what does bpd mean? Please don't tell me it means bipolar disorder... If that's the case, run. The ****. Away.

Either way... Go find another girl.
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No I just wanted her to say she would come over - visit me at my new condo
she came once but resisted coming again because we came close to having sex and she has issues with getting too attached after sex and saving it for a real relationship and the "one she is meant to be with" .

I wanted her to sleep over like any girl friend would in my bed - also it is a 90 min drive.

I'm trying to find another girl but it is not easy .. tried online dating with no luck

BPD stands for borderline personality disorder - severe anxiety and abandonment issues - trouble with commitment, relationships, depression etc.
 
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I'll add to this thread. My b*tch gf of three years went on a date with some other guy, so I dumped her. No more contact.
 
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