"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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New milf interaction. Not holding anything back .

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So I just met a milf.. She's got like 13 years on me or so. She's super cool and we had some good conversation. Didn't get to talk too much but I am messaging her back and forth now ..

so without hesitation I let her know that i think it'd be pretty hot to make out with her/get sexual in the other room while her kids were around (her kids are close to my age)

I told her about an experience I had with my friends young mom who used to smoke weed with me.. where my friend left in the middle of the smokin session and had to go to the grocery store.. leaving me and his mom in her bedroom, smoking weed together..

I'll keep you guys updated. If something fun happens.

With this chick, I didn't do any holding back.. I just went balls in for it.. Just because IDC what happens regardless .. I got enough plates spinning.. and I can take crazy risks .. Fun fun fun !
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Update: So she politely let me know she's not interested in the sexcapades but rather would like to have conversation and wine and be friends.. I'm not really too interested in friends despite knowing it'll lead to sex. She just doesn't want some young guy randomly having sex with her.. Even at that age she's not willing to give it up that easy haha
 

Building_and_Loan

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Wtf dude your game needs work. You essentially told her you want to incorporate her kids into a sexual scenario.

Not cool.
 

om1xr

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lol It's ok to show your interest in the girl or whatever but you basically acted like a sniper who shouted ABRAKADABRA before shooting the other sniper which landed him dead on the spot.
improve your game
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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