“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ok, so I have this new chick that I want to sex(kidding), and this time I hope to not mess up.

Obviously last time (I'm MyNameIsTaken FYI, just in case: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75402), I messed up really badly; making the chick I was after think I was a stalker or something. This time I hope it'll be the opposite.

Ok, so this chick's name is Julie, and she's in my choir class :)D ). I'm pretty sure that she has the hots for me, because she hugs me whenever she gets the chance, in class (not out of class though). And she was one of the chicks who did this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76621

So my question is, how should I handle this? Only problem is that there's like 2 more days of school, and maybe I can get her before break. Also, strange enough, before this I pretty much ignored her, even though she was all over me. Hopefully she hasn't lost alot of interest.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No offense intended.. I don't really come around these forums all that much, but I've noticed you seem to ask this and similar questions pretty often. Come on, you know what to do by now, stop using this place as a crutch and take charge! That's my best guess to why no one answers, at least.

I know you're trying to be fun and relaxed in your post, but there's some real insecurity shining through. Prove to us and to yourself you can do it, you've got nothing to lose by giving it your ultimate best shot.

I know you might read this and think it sounds kind of harsh .. but i hope you succeed!
 

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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
Ok, so I have this new chick that I want to sex(kidding), and this time I hope to not mess up.

Obviously last time (I'm MyNameIsTaken FYI, just in case: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75402), I messed up really badly; making the chick I was after think I was a stalker or something. This time I hope it'll be the opposite.

Ok, so this chick's name is Julie, and she's in my choir class :)D ). I'm pretty sure that she has the hots for me, because she hugs me whenever she gets the chance, in class (not out of class though). And she was one of the chicks who did this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76621

So my question is, how should I handle this? Only problem is that there's like 2 more days of school, and maybe I can get her before break. Also, strange enough, before this I pretty much ignored her, even though she was all over me. Hopefully she hasn't lost alot of interest.
Your kidding? You dont really want to sex her. She's a love interest? .... your in the choir? (Just kiddin about the choir, thats ok)

Toughen up dude, grow some balls and #Close her. 2 days of school left? All you need is 2 minutes.
 
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