"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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New love interest...

DogFashionDisco

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Ok, so I have this new chick that I want to sex(kidding), and this time I hope to not mess up.

Obviously last time (I'm MyNameIsTaken FYI, just in case: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75402), I messed up really badly; making the chick I was after think I was a stalker or something. This time I hope it'll be the opposite.

Ok, so this chick's name is Julie, and she's in my choir class :)D ). I'm pretty sure that she has the hots for me, because she hugs me whenever she gets the chance, in class (not out of class though). And she was one of the chicks who did this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76621

So my question is, how should I handle this? Only problem is that there's like 2 more days of school, and maybe I can get her before break. Also, strange enough, before this I pretty much ignored her, even though she was all over me. Hopefully she hasn't lost alot of interest.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No offense intended.. I don't really come around these forums all that much, but I've noticed you seem to ask this and similar questions pretty often. Come on, you know what to do by now, stop using this place as a crutch and take charge! That's my best guess to why no one answers, at least.

I know you're trying to be fun and relaxed in your post, but there's some real insecurity shining through. Prove to us and to yourself you can do it, you've got nothing to lose by giving it your ultimate best shot.

I know you might read this and think it sounds kind of harsh .. but i hope you succeed!
 

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Originally posted by DogFashionDisco
Ok, so I have this new chick that I want to sex(kidding), and this time I hope to not mess up.

Obviously last time (I'm MyNameIsTaken FYI, just in case: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=75402), I messed up really badly; making the chick I was after think I was a stalker or something. This time I hope it'll be the opposite.

Ok, so this chick's name is Julie, and she's in my choir class :)D ). I'm pretty sure that she has the hots for me, because she hugs me whenever she gets the chance, in class (not out of class though). And she was one of the chicks who did this: http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?s=&threadid=76621

So my question is, how should I handle this? Only problem is that there's like 2 more days of school, and maybe I can get her before break. Also, strange enough, before this I pretty much ignored her, even though she was all over me. Hopefully she hasn't lost alot of interest.
Your kidding? You dont really want to sex her. She's a love interest? .... your in the choir? (Just kiddin about the choir, thats ok)

Toughen up dude, grow some balls and #Close her. 2 days of school left? All you need is 2 minutes.
 
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