"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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New Look (Thinking about getting)

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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WaterTiger

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Those are GIRLS!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hughman

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The first looks female, the third is up to debate.

May be cool if you are of Oriental descent and/or leaving there, but it will look faggish on anyone else.
 

Commandante

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Hey, you are only 17! In that age you can do everything you want! Experiments are good.
 

WhitePimp

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Go for it man, just expect to get tormented by a lot of dudes. The guys I've seen sporting that style usually have hot ass girls with them though, you'll definitely stand out
 

Scars

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Jpop style is a little extreme. Although I think it looks cool, idk how well it will do with the ladies. But then again you should just do whatever makes you happy. It kind of reminds me of my style a little bit, although not as extreme. Why not just go for straight ROCKER look? Seems to work well for me.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Eugene123

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thanks guys for the feedback, I'll give it a shot since I don't have anything to lose, I'll post back the results later.
 

Ice882

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ugh. oh god. no.
 
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