"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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New Look (Thinking about getting)

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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WaterTiger

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Those are GIRLS!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hughman

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The first looks female, the third is up to debate.

May be cool if you are of Oriental descent and/or leaving there, but it will look faggish on anyone else.
 

Commandante

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Hey, you are only 17! In that age you can do everything you want! Experiments are good.
 

WhitePimp

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Go for it man, just expect to get tormented by a lot of dudes. The guys I've seen sporting that style usually have hot ass girls with them though, you'll definitely stand out
 

Scars

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Jpop style is a little extreme. Although I think it looks cool, idk how well it will do with the ladies. But then again you should just do whatever makes you happy. It kind of reminds me of my style a little bit, although not as extreme. Why not just go for straight ROCKER look? Seems to work well for me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Eugene123

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thanks guys for the feedback, I'll give it a shot since I don't have anything to lose, I'll post back the results later.
 

Ice882

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ugh. oh god. no.
 
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