"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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New lady confronts me about feelings for another woman

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lighthouse1956

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I met a woman online, and we hit it off pretty good, so we went to church with me Wed. night, afterward we went to Huddle House for coffee with a woman I 've had feelings for ( she ljbfed me, but still close). Well when I took my new friend home, she turned and looked at me and said "You're in love with D****, aren't you? I see it in your eyes when you look at her."


I really didn't know how to react, I told her I have feelings for D****, but it's not mutual, that I need to see new women to get over her, but that is why maybe I shouldn't committ to a LTR yet.

The new lady knows she doesn't match D**** in the appearence dept.

Any suggestions?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This will only become a problem if the woman you met online either keeps hounding you about it or refuses to see you again over it.

In the first case you'll either next or deal with the nagging as best you can and in the second you'll simply have to find some other plates to spin.
 
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