"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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New lady confronts me about feelings for another woman

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I met a woman online, and we hit it off pretty good, so we went to church with me Wed. night, afterward we went to Huddle House for coffee with a woman I 've had feelings for ( she ljbfed me, but still close). Well when I took my new friend home, she turned and looked at me and said "You're in love with D****, aren't you? I see it in your eyes when you look at her."


I really didn't know how to react, I told her I have feelings for D****, but it's not mutual, that I need to see new women to get over her, but that is why maybe I shouldn't committ to a LTR yet.

The new lady knows she doesn't match D**** in the appearence dept.

Any suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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This will only become a problem if the woman you met online either keeps hounding you about it or refuses to see you again over it.

In the first case you'll either next or deal with the nagging as best you can and in the second you'll simply have to find some other plates to spin.
 
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