"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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MegaMan.EXE

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Hey everyone, I am a 17 year old HS student who is going to be a senior next year.

I read most of the New Age Mini Bible and let me just say I was extremely impressed at the advice given on those articles. I have never been too great with the ladies, but ya know why? I WAS TOO NICE! Basically, I would come out as a desperate guy and just become a friggin' doormat for every girl I ever tried to hook up with.

Hell, I tried some of the advice while hanging out with friends yesterday and I found that I was finding it easier to talk to them then before, with a lot more positive feedback from their part then before also. I can't wait for the next school year, where I can really but my DJ skills to the test.

Thanks for helping me realizing my faults after all these years and thanks for actually helping me to grow a **** and increase my confidence. I'll be posting here on a regular basis from now on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Caveman

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Welcome on board mate.

NICE that you've already started putting your new found knowledge to the test! Keep it up!
 

HHloser2

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GJ finding this place, It helps like you wouldnt imagen. Now just keep up with the DJ work.
 

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welcome to the boards

These boards have helped me out more then you can imagine.

The best thing that I can tell you to do is continue reading the DJ Bible. Although the High School Bible is good the One in the upper right is the best one.

Hope you stick around.
 

LikRetsam

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I urge you to read the posts in the main bible by Pook 'Kill that desperation' and 'Be a man'.

Work with that for a bit then read the 100page Weapons of Mass Seduction by Fingers once you are more comfortable with your new DJ tools.

Welcome aboard!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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