"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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new here! and if possible i could really use some advice

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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hey there!
so im a bit drunk but i dont care
this evening i went to a disco with the new knowlegde i learn from here
and god damn it ****king works! i just keep real cool and flirty and i didnt mind the girls accually i was more focusing on the party it self(in the past i concentrated on the girls) and ****king hell i just kissed to hot girls tonight wich is really a big deal for me.. i never even dair to do that but i just did i i didnt care i just kino'd alot and asked question and at some time i just kissed them both! only.. i think the first girl saw me kissing the second one.. but i dont care that much im young so what do i care?! its nice to know someone new but i don't care alot anymore... thanks guys! i really made progress because of it.. and i feel really more comfortable because of it..
i have to say.. i drunk alot yes.. but mostly i get agressive of alcohol because i cant handle the girlsl.. but tonight i didnt care i really had fun and i kissed to girl wich i see as an improvement =)!

thanks in advance guys you really cleared things up to me and really made a huge diffrence between the afc i was and the afc i now am.. well. i accually think that i upgrade my self to a junor don juan hehe
 
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