"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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new here! and if possible i could really use some advice

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey there!
so im a bit drunk but i dont care
this evening i went to a disco with the new knowlegde i learn from here
and god damn it ****king works! i just keep real cool and flirty and i didnt mind the girls accually i was more focusing on the party it self(in the past i concentrated on the girls) and ****king hell i just kissed to hot girls tonight wich is really a big deal for me.. i never even dair to do that but i just did i i didnt care i just kino'd alot and asked question and at some time i just kissed them both! only.. i think the first girl saw me kissing the second one.. but i dont care that much im young so what do i care?! its nice to know someone new but i don't care alot anymore... thanks guys! i really made progress because of it.. and i feel really more comfortable because of it..
i have to say.. i drunk alot yes.. but mostly i get agressive of alcohol because i cant handle the girlsl.. but tonight i didnt care i really had fun and i kissed to girl wich i see as an improvement =)!

thanks in advance guys you really cleared things up to me and really made a huge diffrence between the afc i was and the afc i now am.. well. i accually think that i upgrade my self to a junor don juan hehe
 
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