"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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new here! and if possible i could really use some advice

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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hey there!
so im a bit drunk but i dont care
this evening i went to a disco with the new knowlegde i learn from here
and god damn it ****king works! i just keep real cool and flirty and i didnt mind the girls accually i was more focusing on the party it self(in the past i concentrated on the girls) and ****king hell i just kissed to hot girls tonight wich is really a big deal for me.. i never even dair to do that but i just did i i didnt care i just kino'd alot and asked question and at some time i just kissed them both! only.. i think the first girl saw me kissing the second one.. but i dont care that much im young so what do i care?! its nice to know someone new but i don't care alot anymore... thanks guys! i really made progress because of it.. and i feel really more comfortable because of it..
i have to say.. i drunk alot yes.. but mostly i get agressive of alcohol because i cant handle the girlsl.. but tonight i didnt care i really had fun and i kissed to girl wich i see as an improvement =)!

thanks in advance guys you really cleared things up to me and really made a huge diffrence between the afc i was and the afc i now am.. well. i accually think that i upgrade my self to a junor don juan hehe
 
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