"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Sup guys awsome site i have been reading a lot of articles and post the last 2 days.. Anyways im 28 and look foward to joining yalls community in the coming years.
Last night at the local pool hall i had a situwation occur. I used to hustle pool and pretty much grew up in this pool hall so everyone there knows me by name. Anyways last night was the first night ive stopped in there in the past 2 months. Theres a waitress who works there that every guy is always trying to hook up with and ive talked to her a few times but just surface talk.
So she and one of her friends were sitting at the bar having a beer and i sat on the other side of them to chat.. Its one of those long bars with seats on both sides so i had solid eye contact with her the whole time.Few minutes into the convo and her friend lights a ciggarette and the smoke goes straight into my face. The waitress im talking to immeditaly puts her hand up and waves the smoke out of my face. She then goes into a story about how her and some friends got kicked out of a strip club a while back. I roll my eyes and start laughing and she tells me that shes really a good person. She said it like 3 times like to really get the point across that shes a good person. \
So you guys think i should make a move on her or am i just over analyzing the whole thing. I just got out of a 1year relationship thursday so i duno.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Make of it what YOU want. Invite her out to do something, maybe you'll have more fun than you thought. What's the worst that could happen? If you don't take a risk now you'll regret it later.
 
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