"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Sup guys awsome site i have been reading a lot of articles and post the last 2 days.. Anyways im 28 and look foward to joining yalls community in the coming years.
Last night at the local pool hall i had a situwation occur. I used to hustle pool and pretty much grew up in this pool hall so everyone there knows me by name. Anyways last night was the first night ive stopped in there in the past 2 months. Theres a waitress who works there that every guy is always trying to hook up with and ive talked to her a few times but just surface talk.
So she and one of her friends were sitting at the bar having a beer and i sat on the other side of them to chat.. Its one of those long bars with seats on both sides so i had solid eye contact with her the whole time.Few minutes into the convo and her friend lights a ciggarette and the smoke goes straight into my face. The waitress im talking to immeditaly puts her hand up and waves the smoke out of my face. She then goes into a story about how her and some friends got kicked out of a strip club a while back. I roll my eyes and start laughing and she tells me that shes really a good person. She said it like 3 times like to really get the point across that shes a good person. \
So you guys think i should make a move on her or am i just over analyzing the whole thing. I just got out of a 1year relationship thursday so i duno.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Make of it what YOU want. Invite her out to do something, maybe you'll have more fun than you thought. What's the worst that could happen? If you don't take a risk now you'll regret it later.
 
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