Can't write much more above what Colossus and Kailex already covered- spot on. But I do know that feeling in your chest, and it's rather difficult to go through that situation while learning from members here i.e. undoing years of being on auto-pilot. Do learn it, though; it's indispensable to your well-being and future success. Stand your ground, head up, and at least hold on to your guns.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
new guy, wife treats me like ****
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