"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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DJx420

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Hey guys, I'm new to the board, but NOT new to this site.

I've read the bible, and just starting to put the techniques to work.
Today for example, I am meeting a girl after we both get off work to hang out at her place. Now her roomie might also be there which could be a downer but that ain't gunna stop me from running my game on her.

Now, I set it up for yesterday initially but my boys were going jet skiing after work so I flaked on her (hopefully increased attractiveness - what do you guys think)?

After flaking, I told her my plans for today after work were canceled (didn't have any but wanted to sound like I was busy) and that we shoudl rescuedle for then. She agreed and said for me to CALL HER TODAY.

Now we both work in the city, she works till 6 and I work till 5. I'm supposed to meet her at around like 615ish at her place.

I think calling would just be annoying as were both working. So do you guys this a text is still acceptable? or should I just call because she said to?

Thanks, and hopefully I learn a lot from you guys in the time to come!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Zerotwoonenine

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welcome brother

DJx420 said:
Hey guys, I'm new to the board, but NOT new to this site.

I've read the bible, and just starting to put the techniques to work.
Today for example, I am meeting a girl after we both get off work to hang out at her place. Now her roomie might also be there which could be a downer but that ain't gunna stop me from running my game on her.

Now, I set it up for yesterday initially but my boys were going jet skiing after work so I flaked on her (hopefully increased attractiveness - what do you guys think)?

After flaking, I told her my plans for today after work were canceled (didn't have any but wanted to sound like I was busy) and that we shoudl rescuedle for then. She agreed and said for me to CALL HER TODAY.

Now we both work in the city, she works till 6 and I work till 5. I'm supposed to meet her at around like 615ish at her place.

I think calling would just be annoying as were both working. So do you guys this a text is still acceptable? or should I just call because she said to?

Thanks, and hopefully I learn a lot from you guys in the time to come!
enjoy being the man. whether you are on the light/dark side, we got both here.
 

DJx420

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Hmm...Yea I mean when I get flaked on I get angry but depending on the girl and situation it could increase attraction...Such as yesterday I didn't just say I couldn't go...I said I couldn't do it, explained why and rescheduled.

So I figured that would have been acceptable and not telling her to NEXT me.

Was I wrong in this assumption?
 
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