"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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DJx420

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Hey guys, I'm new to the board, but NOT new to this site.

I've read the bible, and just starting to put the techniques to work.
Today for example, I am meeting a girl after we both get off work to hang out at her place. Now her roomie might also be there which could be a downer but that ain't gunna stop me from running my game on her.

Now, I set it up for yesterday initially but my boys were going jet skiing after work so I flaked on her (hopefully increased attractiveness - what do you guys think)?

After flaking, I told her my plans for today after work were canceled (didn't have any but wanted to sound like I was busy) and that we shoudl rescuedle for then. She agreed and said for me to CALL HER TODAY.

Now we both work in the city, she works till 6 and I work till 5. I'm supposed to meet her at around like 615ish at her place.

I think calling would just be annoying as were both working. So do you guys this a text is still acceptable? or should I just call because she said to?

Thanks, and hopefully I learn a lot from you guys in the time to come!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Zerotwoonenine

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welcome brother

DJx420 said:
Hey guys, I'm new to the board, but NOT new to this site.

I've read the bible, and just starting to put the techniques to work.
Today for example, I am meeting a girl after we both get off work to hang out at her place. Now her roomie might also be there which could be a downer but that ain't gunna stop me from running my game on her.

Now, I set it up for yesterday initially but my boys were going jet skiing after work so I flaked on her (hopefully increased attractiveness - what do you guys think)?

After flaking, I told her my plans for today after work were canceled (didn't have any but wanted to sound like I was busy) and that we shoudl rescuedle for then. She agreed and said for me to CALL HER TODAY.

Now we both work in the city, she works till 6 and I work till 5. I'm supposed to meet her at around like 615ish at her place.

I think calling would just be annoying as were both working. So do you guys this a text is still acceptable? or should I just call because she said to?

Thanks, and hopefully I learn a lot from you guys in the time to come!
enjoy being the man. whether you are on the light/dark side, we got both here.
 

DJx420

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Hmm...Yea I mean when I get flaked on I get angry but depending on the girl and situation it could increase attraction...Such as yesterday I didn't just say I couldn't go...I said I couldn't do it, explained why and rescheduled.

So I figured that would have been acceptable and not telling her to NEXT me.

Was I wrong in this assumption?
 
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