"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Holland27

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Hey guys I just got out of a 20 month long relationship. Ya count them 20! It was a waste of my freshman and sophomore year I'm now going to be a junior and I feel completely lost. Because now that I realize it my X destroyed my entire social circle of girls I had built up from junior high. I have trouble talking to girls in a way that gets them interested in me. I can talk to them but they just always want to be friends. This I believe is because I was tied down for so long! Even tho I don't try and be a nice guy it just ends up that way some how please help it's much appreciated!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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FlyGuyM

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first thing first; go out, first pretty girl you see; introduce yourself, use her as practice. no girl ever thinks of a random guy that approaches her on the street as just a friend (so thats a step in the right direction) use her to kill the akwardness that lives inside of you. that should make it easier to talk to girls you know in a Not friendly way.
 
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