Hey guys I just got out of a 20 month long relationship. Ya count them 20! It was a waste of my freshman and sophomore year I'm now going to be a junior and I feel completely lost. Because now that I realize it my X destroyed my entire social circle of girls I had built up from junior high. I have trouble talking to girls in a way that gets them interested in me. I can talk to them but they just always want to be friends. This I believe is because I was tied down for so long! Even tho I don't try and be a nice guy it just ends up that way some how please help it's much appreciated!
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
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