"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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New guy needing routine/nutrition guidance.

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Long, but its my first post.

I really need some guidance on my meal plan and workout schedule. I'm about 5'11" and weigh 195. When I was younger I got a really bad viral infection and I was on steriods that ballooned me to ~260. For years i was in the 200+ range. About 2 years ago I got pissed enough and started a routine. I lost alot in a short period of time. However, after graduating it wasn't easy finding work in the IT industry, so I was stressed, and stopped working out as much. Even when I started to work, I was too disgusted from my job to even get the energy. So, for about 6 months I was off/on and didn't get the fit midsectin I want. Now that I'm back in the game, I really need some guidance.

Im doing a mix of cardio/weight training. I have really good muscle tone in the arms, legs, chest, but have love handles and some junk left in my stomach. I actually do "well" meeting women. I'm a good looking guy, well put together, but always feel too uptight with my body do even do anything. I'm pissed that I constantly act cold after meeting cute girls so I don't have to end up taking my shirt off. Yes its lame, but I'm really closed and uptight when it comes to that and I need to change things for the better. So, given my workout and nutrition plan listed below, am I doing enought to get me the results I want?

1. Workout: Typical workout (5 days a week) includes about 30 minutes of free-weight training. Then, I ride a stationary bike 20-30 minutes, burning about 300-400 calories.

2. Nutrition: Listed below is my typical day. I don't mind eating the same thing, but do I eat the right things? Do I need to drink protein shakes or add supplements to melt the weight in my sides/stomach?

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Breakfast:
Bowl of Special K with blueberries or strawberries
2 eggwhites
1 piece of whole wheat with Simply Gif PB
1 Glass Skilm Milk with cappuccino mix

Snack 1:
Fruit (orange or bannana) + Odwalla breakfast bar.

Lunch:
Low Fat Turkey breast on Whole wheat, tomoto or roasted peppers.
Low fat yourgurt.

Snack 2:
Large apple.

Dinner.
What ever mamas kitchen serves up.

Snack 3:
Old Fashioned Oatmeal or Cheerios with fruit.
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I appreciate your comments and all of your help. Its funny how I open up to a discussion form more than I would my family, but in some way I feel closer to all of you. Haha.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you drinking enough liquids to help digestion? What you have in your stomach may not be fat.
 

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If anything, I may drink too much water. I drink 32 ounces often by 11 a.m, about 3-4 20 ounce bottles up to 6:00, and another 32 or more when working out over 1 hour. Its definitely some jelly in my belly. I prob need to lose 10-20, I guess. However its nice to know I can feel my abs under it when I pinch in, just need to take it off.
 

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What is your goal?
 

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bodybuilding.com

seriously, ignore anything else here and join their boards.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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people parrot bad advice on any forum. you just have to be smart enough to see it.
 

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line_in_the_sand said:
Oh please. Do NOT go to bodybuilding.com. The two best boards on the net are:
www.ironaddicts.com
www.intensemuscle.com

Both are packed with experienced trainers, most of whom are in their 30s, 40s and 50s - which means several years of experience. Bodybuilding.com consists mostly of 18 year olds parroting bad advice.

Simple as that.

I agree! Stay away from bodybuilding.com unless you feel like wasting time. (Obviously some people there know what there talking about, but its hard to find with all the terrible advice surrounding it.)

ironaddicts.com and intensemuscle.com are two of the best forums
 

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The MORE people there are on a board, the MORE people there are giving you bad advice. Go with those two previous links and fortifiediron.com.
 
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