"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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zinc4

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Is always trying to be the one who control s the remote control with the tv...she always tries to do this and I find it rather annoying because it feels like a **** test at times and I like being absolute king in my castle so to speak...I never really give in abd let her do it and she seems happy when I say no...the only time I will say yes is right after sex and I feel like browsing the net....she seems to throw a lot of frequent tests in general...

Lately I have been countering with, I'll give u 20 mins of remote time if u go to 7-11 abd get me such and such...I live right down the street from a 7-11...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The best way to preserve your castle with you still being the King is not to let women invade your castle. Once you allow a woman to start living with you or to spend large amounts of time in your castle, you give up your throne so to speak, where she can take it over. She will automatically feel entitled to whatever you have in the palace including your TV and internet. Women will do just that, so you should be wise to their game and not allow it to go on under your roof.

I have women stay the least amount of time over at my place. I will usually go bang them over at their place so my castle is not invaded where I don't have to clean or put up with any annoyances. Some women shed their hair like crazy,and I don't want to have to vacuum their hairs all over when other girls are showing up the next day. Much easier to go to their place when I can make my exit at my own leisure.

Same thing as with a girlfriend, you know she is invading the palace, and you still have her inside the castle. Why don't you consider going to her place if she isn't living with you so you don't have to deal with her nuisances in your castle? All of your problems will be solved inside your home, dealing with her in other ways is a different story.
 

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She lives with her parents...Taiwanese culture.. only other option is hotel which is a waste of money unless on a trip ofcourse....yeah, chicks always shed their hairs at my place...really annoying...
 

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When I visit someone and we happen to watch TV, or just glance at it while we talk, it's always me holding the remote, I really have to make a conscious effort to put it down. I don't know what that says about me, but I couldn't stand to be in your situation.

So to your girl: let's make a deal, I'll be in charge of TV, but if you need to hold something in your hands while watching, my penis is yours to hold. You know which buttons to press. *turns TV on*
 

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Yeah, it's the first girl to pull that on me being so important to hold the remote or even what's on tv in the first place...if it continues, she's headed to dumpsville....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Cerwin Vega

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The hair shedding is a real annoyance!

hudpes - I like your style. Repped
 
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