The girl im goin out wid curently for no reason at all has got it in her head that i fancy this over girl. This over girl i have never even spoken to as a mater of fact but she still insists that i fancy her. This is a problem as ive spent ages tryin to get wiv ma current girlfriend who ive bin only goin out wid now 4 a week and now she thinks 4 no reason i fancy some one else! This makes no sense to me and i dont see why it should. she keeps talking bout it and making jokes bout it even going as far as asking the girl if she fancies me!!! I wana no how i should handle this as ive told her i dont fancy her and i think its gona ultimately split us up which id rather avoid (surprisingly)!?! got any ideas as to what i could do to make her think different?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
New girlfriend thinks i fancy sum1 els!! WTF...
- Thread starter blaze69
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Royal Elite
Banned
You new girl is not looking to be a mother. She doesnt' want a guy who flips out everytime she expresses her opinion. You are acting like you need to bend over at her every wish. Just because she expressed it, that is her opinion which she is entitled too, that doenst mean you have to now take the defensive stance.Originally posted by blaze69
The girl im goin out wid curently for no reason at all has got it in her head that i fancy this over girl. This over girl i have never even spoken to as a mater of fact but she still insists that i fancy her. This is a problem as ive spent ages tryin to get wiv ma current girlfriend who ive bin only goin out wid now 4 a week and now she thinks 4 no reason i fancy some one else! This makes no sense to me and i dont see why it should. she keeps talking bout it and making jokes bout it even going as far as asking the girl if she fancies me!!! I wana no how i should handle this as ive told her i dont fancy her and i think its gona ultimately split us up which id rather avoid (surprisingly)!?! got any ideas as to what i could do to make her think different?
If she mentions it again, if you found her attractive say "yes she is a very attractive person". I tell my wife about girls I found attractive all the time, she even points them out and ask.
You girl wants a boyfriend not a son, stop backing down every time she expresses herself.
Jack McCrack
Senior Don Juan
First of all, learn how to ****ing spell. This isn't the streets, this is an internet message board. Ebonics will earn you no respect.
Secondly, be a man and stand your ground. You're allowed to fancy anything you want and so is she. Learn to accept it.
Secondly, be a man and stand your ground. You're allowed to fancy anything you want and so is she. Learn to accept it.
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Yeah learn to type.
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
typically when a girl says that you like another girl when you deny it she is either
1.) Right
2.) Insecure
Just My opinion
1.) Right
2.) Insecure
Just My opinion
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
she could be doing self-sabatoge and is insecure.
she's insecure, my girlfriend does that all the time. there's this one time that an acquantance had the hots for me, and my girlfriend just blew up on me and heck i wasn't EVEN interested in the girl. oh man, just totally makes me pissed off when she brings stuff like that and overanalyze the whole da.mn situation