"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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glowstix

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Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TxCowboy

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Sounds to me like she's already insecure. You should use a little C&F and bust on her saying something like "Why do you have to be so insecure, dont you trust me??"

I know if they can flip through your phone, then you should be able to flip through their's. Its a 2 way street ...
 

drixsa

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Originally posted by glowstix
Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
First of all, you are AFC.

You limit yourself to seeing her once a week?

WTF?? why so she doesn't see the real you or because you don't want to pay for dates.

Your Cell phone is like your diary???

please! No you didn't put your foot down but you should of put your foot in your mouth, idiot.

You do not need to shower her with gift or exspensive dates, you should see her more than once a week though.

there are so many dates that you can go on without speding serious money.
 

glowstix

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give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
 

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Originally posted by glowstix
give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
Cute and Fairy-like
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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