"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Sounds to me like she's already insecure. You should use a little C&F and bust on her saying something like "Why do you have to be so insecure, dont you trust me??"

I know if they can flip through your phone, then you should be able to flip through their's. Its a 2 way street ...
 
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Originally posted by glowstix
Alright heres the deal i got a new girl and she comes from a wealthy family but works. She is prob the hottest girl I have been with and I feel my game slipping away and the AFC comming on quick. When we were dating she would always throw me money when we went out for lunch and stuff now we are a couple I take her out to dinner and nothing. I like the relationship and shes cool and doesnt bother me much. I limit myself to only seeing her once a week.

She grabbed my cell phone last night and starts flipping through it so I grabbed it back and said "thats like reading my diary". So I kinda put my foot down there. Basically I want you guys to tell me how to give her the idea quick that I am not made of money and will not spoil her rotten.
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First of all, you are AFC.

You limit yourself to seeing her once a week?

WTF?? why so she doesn't see the real you or because you don't want to pay for dates.

Your Cell phone is like your diary???

please! No you didn't put your foot down but you should of put your foot in your mouth, idiot.

You do not need to shower her with gift or exspensive dates, you should see her more than once a week though.

there are so many dates that you can go on without speding serious money.
 
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give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
 
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Originally posted by glowstix
give me some ideas that wouldnt cost money... and what is C&F?
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Cute and Fairy-like
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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